If You Are the Black Sheep in Your Family, You Need to Hear This

You did not stumble upon this message by accident. If you are the black sheep in your family, you need to listen to this, even if you do not believe in God. By the end, everything in your life will make sense.

The Struggles of the Black Sheep

If you are the black sheep, chances are your family stresses you out. There might be addiction—alcohol or drugs—abuse of all kinds, including physical, verbal, emotional, or even narcissistic abuse. These patterns likely go back generations, yet your family covers it up, denies it, or worse, blames you. You have become the scapegoat, the one they lie about, slander, and reject. But why?

The Spiritual Battle Behind It

God is real, and so is spiritual warfare. The Bible teaches that some people are chosen by God for a great purpose. Others have free will to follow God or not. But there are also those who will never follow Him, whose hearts are closed to Him.

Jesus said in John 8:44, “You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father’s desires.” This means that the enemy works through those who are not saved by God. 2 Corinthians 4:4 says, “The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers.” This means many people do not even realize that they are being used to carry out the enemy’s plans.

Why You Are the Black Sheep

If you are the black sheep, it is because you have an anointing from God. The enemy sees it, even if you don’t. You irritate the demons in your family because your presence exposes the truth. Your family may not even realize what they are doing, but the enemy is using them to break you down, to keep you suffering, so you never discover your true purpose in God.

The devil’s greatest weapon is suffering. He wants to make you miserable so you question God’s existence and never seek Him. But God sees you. He has not abandoned you. Jeremiah 29:11 says, “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.”

Why Hasn’t God Helped You Yet?

Many people call out to God when they are suffering, asking Him to save them. But then, they go back to their old ways, ignoring Him. God does not force Himself into our lives. He has given us free will, and He reveals Himself to those who genuinely seek Him.

The Bible says in Romans 10:9, “If you declare with your mouth, ‘Jesus is Lord,’ and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.” To experience God, you must repent, seek Him daily, and show Him that you truly want a relationship with Him.

How God Can Change Your Life

I suffered for 30 years before I realized what was missing. When I finally committed to seeking God—reading the Bible daily, praying consistently—everything changed. At first, there was no sign that God was there, but I kept going. After three months, He revealed Himself to me, and my life transformed completely.

God is waiting for you to choose Him. He sees your suffering, and He has never left you. The moment you truly seek Him, He will turn your pain into purpose. You are chosen, anointed, and deeply loved. The enemy has tried to keep you from this truth, but today, you can break free.

Start by praying, asking God into your life, and reading His Word. He has a plan for you, and it is greater than anything the enemy has tried to steal from you.

God loves you. God bless you.